Sunset over the Dead Sea on the morning I went swimming in it
Even by our never-endingly eventful Travelife standards, it would be hard to beat one very interesting day in Israel not long ago.
It began with a warm swim in the salty water of the Dead Sea, and then continued on to Tel Aviv for a look at an award-winning installation by an Indian artist who had exhibited atthe Venice Biennale.
Then I went for a test drive of the world’s first electric car with a replaceable battery.
That’s me driving the car, with Elad, the instructore, next to me.
A TYPICAL TRAVELIFE SORT OF DAY
Yes, it was a Travelife sort of day.
But after driving the car around some Tel Aviv neighborhood, we went on to the Jaffa Port to have dinner to watch a much talked about show at the Nalaga’at Center.
A MOST MEMORABLE EVENING
This was a truly memorable evening for me.
It was full of new experiences and it made me think about so many things in my own life — and that’s what travel should really do for a person.
Travel should give you opportunities to push your own boundaries. It should also provide you with opportunities to reflect and contemplate.
That night I had all these.
A PICTURE OF INSPIRATION
Adina Tal, founder
The evening began with a meeting with Adina Tal, founder of the Nalaga’at Center.
I also met Talia Winokur, the center’s resource development manager, over simple cocktails that were served by deaf persons at the Cafe Kapish next door.
This is how I learned about Adina’s heroic efforts to give lives back to the deaf-and-blind of Israel.
GIVING BACK A LOST WORLD
Adina is a theater professional.
Several years ago, she had the opportunity to conduct a workshop for the deaf and blind. This was her first contact with people with these kinds of disabilities.
And from then on, she never looked back. She helped train them to perform in a show that has received rave reviews and is traveling the world over. In January 2013, the group went to New York for a series of performances.
A SHOW THAT BECOMES A REASON TO LIVE
After the show, everyone is invited to taste the bread and to talk to the performers
These shows are literally a reason to live, for these people who are both deaf and blind.
Many of them started out as deaf — either they were born deaf or they became deaf early on — and then their illness caused them to eventually become blind.
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IMAGINING THE UNIMAGINABLE
I tried to imagine — and, I must admit, not without horror — the terrifying and terrible experience of being both deaf and blind, or of gradually becoming both deaf and blind.
In such a situation, your mind is alive and you have so much to express, but you have almost no facility for communication.
Your world is slowly and literally closing in. This is so much harder than anything one who has both sight and hearing can ever imagine. And this is what I realized that night, in Tel Aviv, living a never-ending Travelife.
Talia admitted to me: “It is a terrible experience to be deaf and then to grow blind as well. Many of the people who come to our center admitted to thoughts of suicide.“
Just imagine that you can’t hear, so you become so dependent on your sense of sight and smell to reach out to the world. And then slowly, you start losing your sense of sight as well.
SOMETHING TO LIVE FOR
But happily, the Nalaga’at Center and the regular shows they put on by the Jaffa Port as part of the Deaf-Blind Theatre Ensemble are able to give back to these people some part of their lives.
I watched them onstage tonight performing the show “Not By Bread Alone,” helped by interpreters and assistants.
You must remember that they are performing as regular actors but they cannot actually see or hear anything.
When I saw them onstage and I thought about their situations, I felt like crying.
Yes, it’s been a most emotional visit to Israel. Beyond the historical sights and religious backgrounds — or perhaps because of these? — Israel is truly an emotional country.
DINNER IN THE DARK
To heighten the experience to a depth I can’t even begin to describe, I decided to have dinner at the Black Out restaurant next door, which is affiliated with the Nalaga’at Center but run independently.
The Black Out restaurant is a restaurant for about 30 persons that operates in complete darkness, so you eat your meal as if you are blind.
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There are several restaurants like this around the world, but this one is special because the waiters and waitresses are all legally blind. So whether they are in the kitchen or in the restaurant, they really can’t see anything.
In other hip cities like Paris or New York, there are also restaurants resembling Black Out — but the servers wear night-vision goggles or use some special technology to get their way around the dark.
Here in Tel Aviv, the servers are truly in the dark whether they are in the restaurant or not.
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A LIFE OF CHALLENGES
I decided to do this, although as it was a last-minute decision and there were no other seats available, I had to go alone. As I actually have claustrophobia, this was a very big deal for me to spend over an hour in pitch darkness with complete strangers.
However, as I have decided to rise up to all sorts of challenges in my never-ending Travelife, I took the plunge.
PLUNGING INTO THE DARK
First let me explain that it really is utter, utter darkness.
You can’t bring cameras or phones, no one turns on any kind of illumination, and it is so dark that you can’t even see your finger in front of you. Pitch black.
ECHOES IN THE DARK
You enter by holding the shoulders of your server. Immediately, your sense of hearing is heightened because you have lost your sight.
I became aware of dozens of voices all over the room, echoing like in a theater with good accoustics — but there was not one word I understood because no one was speaking English.
This, of course, increased my sense of isolation further.
My server, Maya, who is of course legally blind, led me to my table, where I sat in front of an Israeli couple. She had already told me who she was seating me with, so I knew it was couple in front of me, although I couldn’t see them.
Maya told me, as I sat down: “You can talk to them. They speak English.”
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DETAILS IN THE DARK
So we began talking in pitch darkness, which was truly surrealistic.
I found out that they were both engineers who were living in the seaside town of Haifa, and that it had been the girl’s birthday yesterday — so this was a surprise for her.
What a surprise it was, indeed.
They were midway through their meal when I came in, as I’d come from the cocktails. While waiting for my food, I asked them: “How is it to eat in utter darkness?“
The guy answered: “Very interesting. I’m eating with my fork and one hand.“
JUST LIKE HOME
Maya, my legally blind server that night
We talked about all sorts of things, and Maya joined us every so often.
She was especially concerned about how I was feeling, as I told her I had claustrophobia but I was determined to do this.
Earlier on, I’d also asked her: “How do you manage to walk around?” She walked around completely normally, you see.
She answered: “What’s so difficult? This is just like walking in my own home.“
The show performed by actors who were deaf and blind
When my food came, I was surprised that I had not too much trouble eating it.
But I did ask Maya: “Is it better to eat with your eyes open or your eyes closed?” It didn’t really matter, right, as you can’t see anything either way.
She replied: “I prefer to eat with my eyes open in the darkness, as I find that I get sleepy if I close my eyes.” On the contrary, I realized that I ate better with my eyes closed, as my sense of taste and hearing got stronger somewhat.
IMAGINATION TAKES OVER
That nights’s dinner companions in the dark: Birthday girl Adi Fuchs and her boyfriend Micha Milshtein
Talking to these three people but not seeing them was an interesting experience, indeed. It’s surprising how the mind can form images of people even before you can see them.
By talking to the couple in front of me, I had a sense of what kind of people they were — including how old they were and how they looked.
After dinner, we left the restaurant together so we could finally see ourselves. I was completely surprised to find out that they looked completely different from what I had imagined!
This is definitely a must-experience in Tel Aviv, especially the Black Out dinner and show combination.
And, of course, it was just another day in our never-ending, and never-endingly eventful Travelife. Good night from Tel Aviv.